I see toddlers for check ups nearly every day and for both the 15 month and 18 month visit, there are many challenges for parents and the pediatrician (and of course the child). Toddlers are not at what I would call an EASY age.
As you know if you have a toddler, they are quite moody (just wait for teenagers) and they can "stop, drop and roll" into a tantrum in the blink of an eye. So while I was examining an 18 month old this week ( she is one of three adorable girls), she suddenly became infuriated (her mother and I were really clueless as to what triggered this) and she jumped off of her mother's lap and fell to the floor kicking and screaming.
Now, for a first time parent this might be alarming behavior, but for a seasoned mother of three it was really no big deal. Appropriately, we all just ignored her as she laid on the floor and screamed (no, the mother was not worried about germs on the floor either) and we continued our conversation about her child's less than stellar sleep habits.
After a few minutes her daughter calmed down, the older sisters got her a sticker and she left without a fuss. Her mother had already learned, like we all do, that the best way to stop tantrums is by ignoring them and letting your toddler have some time to "express her emotions" with age appropriate (although inappropriate for older children) behavior.
Several days later, her mother sent me an email with another picture attached of the same child having yet another tantrum after she found her in her diaper with a sharpie pen happily marking all over herself (the photo above). Of course, the minute she took the marker away her daughter fell to the floor again to express her outrage! So funny that her mom thought to document it and send me another picture.
By the way, she also told me that she had taken practical advice and was working on having her daughter cry herself to sleep and it was working well! Both the tantrums and sleep were improving by just ignoring her behavior. Back to those laws of natural consequences.
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